Hi Henk,
Not really: you can configure the XForms engine not to send focus events through oxf.xforms.client.events.filter, but value changes will be sent anyway. So when it comes to only showing validation errors on submission, see my answer to:
http://discuss.orbeon.com/no-validation-on-page-load-td4656811.html#a4656814Alex
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